This book takes a systemic approach to the problems that houses often present. It's important to remember that a house is like a mirror of its owners, and when the time comes for change, the question arises: What to do with the house? In your house or mine?
Selling, inheritances, empty houses, moving—this book reviews the most common situations, offering a systemic perspective or solution to each.
Inheritance issues can become long-lasting problems if someone doesn't address them. Having to resort to legal action is never ideal, nor is it pleasant for anyone.
This book takes a systemic approach to the problems that houses often present. It's important to remember that a house is like a mirror of its owners, and when the time comes for change, the question arises:
What to do with the house? In your house or mine?
Selling, inheritances, empty houses, moving—this book reviews the most common situations, offering a systemic perspective or solution to each.
Inheritance issues can become long-lasting problems if someone doesn't address them. Reaching the point of legal action is never ideal, nor is it pleasant for anyone.
In this case, family constellations can be considered a kind of mediation and a way to help resolve the situation in the best way for everyone.
Perhaps you're moving house, and moving can sometimes be a major disruption in people's lives. I've been through it myself, so I understand.
They can be much easier. You might be thinking about moving in with someone, your partner. The question then becomes: where
? In your place or mine? Perhaps you think this decision is irrelevant to your well-being and health, but there's also a systemic factor at play here. It's best to keep that in mind.
You might be renting, or perhaps you're thinking about renting out your own home. Are you aware of the dangers of renting for both tenants and landlords? And how to prevent them?
And maybe the only problem that worries you is selling. You're handling it yourself, but it's dragging on. You no longer know what to do, or what's happening; you even start to think some houses are unsellable. Really?
We have answers for that. I've classified three types of houses: bloody houses, healing houses, and mission houses. The most difficult ones, but not unsellable. I also include resolved cases, cases that are still impossible, and various other situations that can arise.
What can be achieved through family constellations? Understanding the true cause of the problem allows for a greater likelihood of success, but it's important to remember that each constellation is unique and personal.
Sometimes the constellation accelerates the sale
. Sometimes it helps the person understand that selling isn't the best solution
. Sometimes it reveals that the person doesn't actually want the sale and can move on with their life.
Sometimes it resolves family issues that the house is asking to be addressed.
And finally, if you're here because you're a professional, this book also holds a treasure for you: getting to know your clients better and managing your sales from a different perspective, giving you the advantage of selling faster.
It's not a manual or a course;
it's a systemic vision and its potential solutions to various dilemmas about what to do with the house, and it includes some real-life case studies, including sales on Amazon.
In these cases, constellations can be considered a form of mediation and a way to resolve the situation in the best way for everyone involved.
It could be because you're moving house, and moving can sometimes be a major upheaval in people's lives. I've been through a few myself, so I understand. Moves
can be much easier. You might be thinking of moving in with someone, your partner. The question then becomes: where
? In your house or mine? Perhaps you think this decision is irrelevant to your well-being and health, but there's also a systemic aspect that comes into play. It's best to consider it.
You might be renting, or you might even be thinking about renting out your own house. Are you aware of the dangers of renting for both tenants and landlords? And how to prevent them?
And perhaps the only problem that worries you is selling. You're handling it yourself, but it's dragging on. You no longer know what to do, or what's happening; you even start to think that some houses are unsellable. Really?
We have answers for that. I've classified three types of houses: bloody houses, healing houses, and mission houses. Yes, the most difficult, but not unsellable. I also include resolved cases, cases that are still impossible, and various other situations that can arise.
What can be achieved through constellations?
Knowing the true cause of the problem allows for a greater likelihood of success, but it must be said that each constellation is unique and personal.
Sometimes the result of the Constellation is that the sale accelerates
. Sometimes the result for the person is understanding that the sale isn't the best solution
. Sometimes the result is that the person doesn't actually want that sale and can move on with their life.
Sometimes family issues that the household is crying out to address are resolved.
And finally, if you're here because you're a professional, there's also a treasure for you in this book: getting to know your clients better and being able to manage your sales from a different perspective, giving you the advantage of being able to sell in less time.
